https://www.lesbian.com/how-to-write-a-winning-lesbian-dating-profile/ Connecting lesbians worldwide Mon, 24 Feb 2014 15:28:42 +0000 hourly 1 https://www.lesbian.com/how-to-write-a-winning-lesbian-dating-profile/#comment-97 Mon, 18 Jun 2012 19:48:34 +0000 http://www.lesbian.com/?p=875#comment-97 When I came out in my 20’s I think I had always known I was as most ppl say “different”. My mom never had a problem with it and when I finally got up the courage to write my dad (he lived in another state from me), he wrote back and all he said was as long as u r happy that is all that matters. Now my grandma, my dad’s mom whom I was close to was a funny story. I was in the process of ending a relationship with one of my g/f’s and my grandma came over in her car to help me move. When we finally got to the closet she saw some men’s suits hanging there and knowing that my soon to be ex was a woman she asked who’s clothes r these? I said they belonged to Marty and she said is she one of those Lezbun’s as she pronounced it and I said yes she is grandma and she said what r u doing with her and I replied because I am one of them too. She just looked at me and we never really talked about it again. She loved me and my one child at the time and she even had my subsequent g/f’s in her home and treated them as she treated me. One even lived in her home with me and my by then 3 kids. to her and my grandpa I was family and my family came along with me. I have had my share of ups and downs in relationships through the years (I am now 55), but I could always count on grandma being there for me. I wish I still had her here to talk to when I have an up or down but I know she is up there watching over me and as long as I have that I know I will be alright.

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